Comments on: Wedding help?

By: Kyra T

Kyra T — Sat, 01 Mar 2008 23:38:31 +0000

i think the rocker wedding sounds fun buut talk it over with you fiance and see what he wants to do aswell. But the rocker one is awesome sounding

By: firebetty74

firebetty74 — Fri, 29 Feb 2008 05:52:43 +0000

You and your fiance should sit down and make a list of the things that are most important to you both. If it’s really important that you live out your rocker dream for one night, then do it. If you just want a beautiful, but simple day, then do your flower field thing, if you really just want to limit the guest list, then have the beach wedding in hawaii or the carribean.

It’s hard to narrow things down, but once you make your decisions, don’t second guess yourself. it will only drive you crazy. Plus, people are ultimately coming to see you on your happy day, they will love it no matter what.

By: Danielle G

Danielle G — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 04:55:26 +0000

I love the flower field idea. It sounds pretty and romantic. My sister got married on the beach and I cried for 3 days because I couldn’t go because of work. We also live inland way inland!! You should pick something that you can look back on and be happy with. Live adventurously on another day not your wedding.

By: Rebecca W

Rebecca W — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 14:33:59 +0000

I think you’ll have the best memories if you pick the easiest thing out of the ones you like. It’s easier for you, it’s easier for your guests (big consideration), it will cause you less stress and fights and money, etc.

I have two philosophies about weddings: it’s not a magic spell, where you get everything perfect and you have a perfect life. Sometimes it seems like the more fuss people make about a wedding, the worse the marriage is! So don’t make “perfect” a goal – you’ll just sweat over trying to make it happen, and it won’t anyway!

Second, the best kind of wedding is the one that will give you, your family and your friends the best memories. I’d proceed with that as my goal, and simple is what I’d favor for that reason.

You’re punk rock idea sounds like a good party idea, but I’d save it for another time.

By: tazcloud23

tazcloud23 — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 00:35:21 +0000

They are all good. You need to pick one that is the best for you. For my wedding I am getting married at a park. There is one in here in Oklahoma. There is a lake near it that have swans in it and there are pretty little flowers. I fill like it is the perfect spot for a wedding. The 1 Idea sounds very pretty. I will tell you this it is your wedding. Do it how you what it is your wedding.

By: bitchyfashion?♥

bitchyfashion?♥ — Sun, 24 Feb 2008 16:07:41 +0000

beach is a good idea but its way too public unless u reserve a private beCH JUST RESERVE IR DO THE OTHER

By: melouofs

melouofs — Sun, 24 Feb 2008 09:48:07 +0000

What does your finace say? He may have ideas of his own. I didn’t really care where we got married, but my fiance really wanted to go away with our families and friends, so a destination wedding it is. This was easier with my family because we’re scattered all over the country, so everyone would be travelling anyway.

By: starbux_adct

starbux_adct — Sat, 23 Feb 2008 14:46:45 +0000

Imagine this:

20, 30, 50 years from now, what do you want to look back and see? What do you want to describe to your children as you show them your wedding photos?

I would personally choose #1, only because for the sake of you and your guests, I think it would be the most fun.

My hubby and I had wanted a destination wedding sooo badly, only about half of our ‘must have’ guests could afford it though.

Do something that will bring everyone together for a good, memorable time. Or, have a traditional… #1 style wedding, then mix it up with a little bit of a rocker reception. A lot of people are doing the 2 wedding dress thing – one for wedding, one for reception. Might be kind of fun with both of your ideas.

Above all, just make sure that your day is not too complicated.. the more time you have with your guests the better. The whole day will go by in what feels to be about 20 minutes, no matter what you do. :]

Good Luck! and Congratulations!!

By: Green Eyes

Green Eyes — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:46:43 +0000

I think you need to sort out which idea is the most realistic and go with that. First, work out budgets for each option. If one is out of your price range, then cut it. Also consider your family (and future in-laws) would saw about the options. If his family is going to be spooked by a rocker wedding, then think twice.

You just need to decide what works best for you and your relationship with your fiance and your family.